Two of my best friends got married recently and as I was viewing all of their AMAZING wedding photos, a few of which I posted, it made me think of the never ending questions that people always ask. For the phase in my life that question is, "Sooooooo, When are you guys going to get married?" I think I get asked this the most out of anything else when people see me. And although I don't mind, I don't know. It often times makes me think how rude of a question it really is. When people get married yes people assume but you never know when your getting married. Just because we have kids doesn't mean we should rush into getting married. I would not want to get married because I have kids. It doesn't work that way. If we aren't ready then we aren't getting married yet. I really don't mind the question because I do it too but the more I'm asked the more I realize its funny because its really none of peoples business. Literally the most random people will ask me, and Im not directing this to any one person because like I said I do it too.

This doesn't just go for When will you get married? It goes for Whens the next baby? Or when are you having a baby? When are you getting a boyfriend? etc.

They are definitely innocent questions but should be considered because you never know what some one is going through. I think the universe read my mind because as I was typing this post, this article below popped up on my Facebook. Check it out. In summary people would ask when this woman was having a baby? It was very painful for her because she had fertility issues. These are personal questions. It was just a reminder to think twice before diving into someones life because you never know the circumstances!

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